Insecurities & Contradictions (Collective Contemplations)

Everybody feels insecure from time to time; it's part of being human. Some people feel insecure about their identity, their worth, or due to comparisons or societal expectations. This blog post is inspired by a poem I wrote a couple of weeks ago. Through that reflection, I realised my insecurities are closely tied to my [...]

17 Things I Learnt in 2017

I find these sorts of lists really inspiring, so I thought I'd share (in no particular order), 17 things I have learnt in 2017: 1. Vulnerability is powerful.  Through writing this blog this year I have shared some of my most personal experiences and emotions. I am so humbled that others have been able to [...]

The Art of the Human Experience

I've always been fascinated with the intricate details of the human experience. The conflicting paradoxes, longings, and wistful layers of emotions and thoughts that make up the depths of the mind. It is through introspection, and exposing oneself to all its associated confusion, frightening and enlightening discoveries, that it all becomes worth it. It is [...]

Dealing with Conflict & Criticism (INFP Open Journal)

Two of the most common, 'textbook' struggles of the INFP personality are avoiding conflict and the sensitivity to criticism. So, I thought I'd share a recent experience I had where I was faced with a conflicting situation, how I dealt with it and what I learnt from it. I debated whether or not I should [...]

8 Things That Inspire Me (as an INFP)

Lately I've been reflecting on the power of inspiration. As an INFP, I feel my best when I feel inspired; when I find deep meaning in something that becomes a catalyst for my own creativity and aspirations. Unfortunately, inspiration can be fleeting - there are moments when I feel like I could write a whole [...]

Dear INFPs… You are not invisible

Dear INFPs... I know what it is like to feel invisible. It is the uncomfortable feeling gnawing away at you as you observe the world passing by in front of your eyes, yet feel detached from it. It is feeling out of place in social situations ruled by meaningless gossip and small talk. It is [...]

Nostalgia, Change & Wanderlust (INFP Open Journal)

Tonight I had an epiphany. I realised that I have spent the majority of my life either reflecting on the past, or dreaming about the future. I am now in a transitionary period of my life where I am starting to live the 'future' that I dreamed about as a child. However, sometimes I feel [...]

INFP Empathy & Attracting Narcissists (Ask an INFP #6)

Welcome back to the "Ask an INFP" blog series, where I answer questions and discuss topics as requested by some of my lovely readers. If you would like to participate, feel free to leave a comment, contact me on instagram (@infpinsights) or send an email to infpinsights@gmail.com. While I certainly don't claim to have all [...]

“Liberation” – An Inspirational Poem

The following poem is a little something I wrote while I was sitting in my Sociology class the other day. I was doing research for a project about the culture and experiences of the Karen ethnic group from South-East Asia. They have endured decades of civil war, and now many have come as refugees to the [...]

Extroverted Thinking (Te) in INFPs

Welcome back to the INFP Cognitive Functions series here on the blog, where we discuss the role of each cognitive process in the INFP personality. Today we'll be focusing on Extroverted Thinking (Te), the inferior function of the INFP: what it is, how it can be developed to help personal growth, and the inferior 'grip'. What is [...]

Unique Characteristics of INFPs (Ask an INFP #3)

Welcome to the third instalment of the 'Ask an INFP' series here on the blog, where you have the opportunity to ask questions and suggest topics for discussion. If you would like to participate, feel free to leave a comment, DM me on instagram (@infpinsights) or send an email to infpinsights@gmail.com. Thank you to @ elduria on instagram [...]

My High School Experience (as an INFP)

I graduate high school this year, so I thought I’d reflect upon my high school years and share my experience of it being an INFP personality type, and also a bit of my own personal life story. Hope you enjoy! FYI: I attended a private co-educational Christian school in a regional city in Australia. In Australia, [...]

Extroverted Intuition (Ne) in INFPs

Extroverted Intuition (Ne) can be defined as seeing possibilities, making connections and seeking to understand the external world in a symbolic, abstract way. For INFPs, developing our auxiliary function of Ne can be a key for greater freedom, creative expression and meaningful personal development. By complementing our sophisticated, internal value system with a well-rounded intuitive [...]

Valuing Quiet People

I can confidently say one of the most frequently asked questions I received throughout my childhood and teen years was "why are you so quiet?" If you can relate, let this post be an encouragement to you. Society tells us that the ideal personality is one that is outgoing, sociable and extraverted. Quiet people are [...]

5 Things I’ve Learnt as an INFP (Open Journal)

  Welcome back to INFP Insights, or if this is your first time here, thank you for stopping by! This post is going to be a personal one, where I will share with you five things I have learnt (and continue to learn) with regards to living as an INFP. This is inspired by some [...]

Self Expression, Finding Your Voice & Authenticity – INFP Struggles #2

Welcome to the second part of the series where we will be exploring different struggles that people of the INFP personality type may face in their everyday life. Today we will be discussing self expression, finding and valuing your 'voice' and authenticity in regards to relating your true self to others. As always, people of any [...]

Improving Self Esteem & Recognising Your Value Within – INFP Struggles #1

Welcome to the first of a new series here on INFP Insights, where I will be discussing common struggles and challenges that INFPs may face in their everyday life. Of course, low self esteem is a common psychological issue that affects many of us, especially in our youth. No matter your type, if you are feeling [...]